2020  - a year that will live in infamy.

 

We waiver between brave and cautious and then throw in a bit (ok, some days a lot) of paranoia.

There is no better way to put it: 

"2020 Sucks"

 

 
2020 News Marvin and Dixie both got another year of all clear on their cancer check ups. 
Joni and Linda both had a knee replacement surgery.
Melannie and Johnny "Neighbor" Stone got married. 
Our friend Tamara is scheduled for a new hip on Chrstmas Eve after years of limping and pain.
We lost our dear friend Glynn Morgan in March. He and Jan were an inspiration for our marriage, travel and life. 
Our great nephew, Rex, lost his wife in a car accident.  Skyler, age 22, left behind 2 year old Dino and 9 month Cora Jean.
   
  We ignored the news, both fake and biased.  We tried our best to keep our political opinions nonintrusive and remain diplomatic and respectful. We witnessed tantrums and outcries with the loudest being over the empty shelves where toilet paper used to be. I will say this, the lack of class shown by all politicians is appalling.  The 2020 elections have been the most bitter and hateful campaigns America has endured. All I know is, I voted.  I can officially bitch and I assure you, I will.
   
Canceled Trips We had two cruises canceled due to the crappy virus, a sibling cruise to Alaska and our protest cruise we take every four years to protest the overwhelming election commentary.  The protest cruise cancellation was the worst because it meant we were stuck in the states on election day.

We had two weeks scheduled in Mexico in May but there was the crappy virus again.  We planned to spend my birthday in Aruba and yet another crappy virus cancellation.  At the end of August we were notified that the condo we had booked in Ruidoso was closed, another cancellation due to the crappy virus. All four of these weeks were timeshare exchanges which they gave back to us, so look out 2021 we have some serious travel ahead. 

   
Travels Not Canceled In January we drove to Colorado where Micky enjoyed three days of skiing. I enjoyed sleeping late, watching it snow and evenings in the sports bar.  We are glad we went after so many of our travels this year were lost.
   
  In March we flew to Vegas and then drove over to Palm Springs to spend time with George and Tamara.  We enjoyed visiting, balcony sitting and floating in a heated pool.  We returned to Vegas and got ready to watch the Red Raiders in the NCAA tournament.  We had money bet on our team and were sitting in the sports book when the tournament fell apart.  We laughed when they announced on Thursday that due to the virus the buffets would be closing on Sunday. Evidently there was no danger on Friday or Saturday? This was the first of many "official mandates" that made us say "Huh". We flew home to a strange and fragmented world.
   
  In May we drove to Florida with Joni to see her new great granddaughter and check on her kids. We were thrilled to eat in a restaurant and go shopping without masks.  We stopped back by the casino in Kinder on our way home.  A few weeks later Vonaceil had a doctor's appointment in Houston and we went back to the Kinder casino, where masks are optional if you have a drink in your hand.  Brilliant way to solve a problem.
   
  Micky and I went to Maroma beach in Mexico for 10 days in August.  This is our go to beach and we enjoyed the time but felt so bad for the workers. The resort was at about 30% occupancy and they had workers coming in part time so they would not have to let any of them go. Workers had already endured 2 months without pay.  They had smiles planted on their faces. They worked hard and made sure the guests enjoyed their time. The closed buildings and empty loungers gave us another view of the financial damage from the pandemic.

On more than one occasion we had the beach all to ourselves thanks to the crappy virus.

 

     
 
  In September Micky, Marvin, Linda, Joni and I spent a week in Florida (Tampa Bay area). We ate seafood, enjoyed thrift store shopping, sent the guys deep sea fishing, floated in the ocean, soaked in the hot tub and played cards and dominoes.  Great family time.  
   
  With our election protest cruise canceled we moved our protest plans to Lawton, Oklahoma, which was a far cry from sailing around the Mexican Riviera. However you do what you have to do. And you know what, we had a great time. We highly recommend chicken friend filet mignon, served at a unique restaurant / bakery downtown.  Eleven of us gathered for shopping, gambling, eating, laughing, visiting and zero politics.  Four more years and another protest cruise, that's for sure.
   
  The week of Christmas we are headed back to Kinder with Gary and Voni. Comped rooms and gumbo, we almost have to go.  Retirement is so sad :-)
   
Our Family We had our Christmas scheduled for Thanksgiving weekend.  The CDC warnings we would have ignored, but two of our group were exposed the week before and the decision was made to zoom the celebration. At the end of our "meeting", Micky announced a new respect for teachers like Mary that dealt with this situation day after day. 
 
   
  Jamie, Luchi, Natalie and Martin are still living their "oil field" life.  Jamie works for a crane company and they are now cleaning up messes made when the oil boom was running so fast.  He said don't count the oil fields out, they are picking back up.  Jamie turned 50 in December.  I think it hurt me more than it did him.  Luchi is still working at Wright Elementary school.  I complain constantly about masks, but Luchi and the kids put one on every day and go to school.  So I need to shut up. (won't happen).  Natalie is an 8th grader this year. She was inducted into National Honor Society. She made the school 8th Grade volleyball and tennis teams. She continues to play on her club volleyball team. Martin is in 5th grade and says he finally likes school. He plays club football and basketball.  Their dog they rescued off the streets in Bogota and brought with them to Texas, Ms. Lola, passed away.  They rescued a lively little fellow named Rocky. Then they decided they needed a friend for Rocky so they rescued TicTak. They keep everyone busy. I do not know how Luchi does it. 
   
  Casey and Katy have had an interesting year, like everyone else.  With the Austin imposed restrictions since March, Casey has worked from home and school distance learning was Katy's only school option.  The only one excited about this new arrangement was Tex. He loves having them home with him every day.  Casey said his business was classed as essential so the shut down did not impact work.  He said business slowed down for a few weeks and then it took off again.  He has stayed busy during the quarantine but has really missed his golf game and competition cook offs. We broke quarantine rules to celebrate Mary's birthday and were able to meet her family. Mary was impacted by the crappy virus as the one job that we lost due to Covid, but she quickly found another. Kira graduated from Wimberly and started her first year at Texas Tech amid all this madness.  Katy tries hard but is not happy with the distance learning. She admits she isn't learning near as much as she did when in the classroom.  And she misses her friends. We visited at their house on the 6th of October and Katy jumped in the pool and spent about an hour swimming. Brrrr rabbit.  She is still the cartwheel queen of the world or at least she practices everyday ... all day. 
   
  Bethany, Michael, Gatlin and Lincoln are still living in Pleasanton. Michel is district manager for NOW, an oil field supply store and still loves to go hunting. Like Jamie, he says the oil fields are rebounding.  Bethany's proofreading dwindled due to nationwide shutdowns put in place. She went back to work part time at WillCall, an oil field support service. They have recently asked her to come back full time so she will be returning to full time office work in January. Gatlin is five and in pre-K and Lincoln turned one the end of August.  Gatlin is one busy kid. He loves to play, is (very) picky about his clothes and thinks Starlord is amazing. Lincoln is captivated by his big brother. He thinks he is funny and loves to watch him run and play.  Lincoln is laid back and sure knows how to cuddle.  It is possible Bethany watched too many Ray Charles video's while she was pregnant, Lincoln has the dance moves down pat especially the head bob. Both boys are like their mom, they love music.
   
Mary, Kira, Katy and Casey Lincoln, Michael, Gatlin and Bethany And the family that does not do group photos.  Jamie, Rocky and Tic Tak Luchi  - avoids photos like the plague.
 
   
  Micky and I love retirement.   Micky has used his shop a good bit this year and I have redecorated the garage floor one splatter at a time as I try pour painting. I have pieced one quilt and started on another - and let me tell you - fabric is not cheap.  We've had a few neighbors ask us who does our lawn, I smile and point at Micky. We have the greenest grass on the block.  Joni is addicted to estate sales and we get talked into going with her (often). We decided we are buying "stuff" at estate sales so our kids will have enough "stuff" to have an estate sale when we are gone.
   
2021 Plans We are pretending life will return to normal next year and are booking travel and making plans.  We are going to Vegas for the week of conference basketball tournaments and staying the next week for the NCAA tournament, redeeming two weeks of our timeshare.

In late April we will reclaim another two weeks of timeshare we lost this year and spend them in Honolulu, Hawaii.  Getting to exchange one week for Hawaii is difficult. Getting two weeks could only happen during a crappy virus.

GCamp is planned for June and will be a biggie this year (we will have a 9th grader then ... yikes that is High School in some schools). 

The siblings have our fingers crossed that we get to sail away to Alaska in August. This is a "rebooked" cruise after our Alaskan cruise was canceled due to the crappy virus.

In October we will travel with the Chandlers to Port Canaveral for a cruise adventure. We have planned a five day cruise on one ship, disembark for two days, and then take a seven day cruise on a different ship.  We will see some new islands and enjoy a southeastern state road trip with friends. 

I am planning / hoping to find time for at least one week in Mexico.  Who am I kidding?  Beach in 2021 is a must! 

   
 Life and Such We worry about Paulette, Steve, Tobe, Jan and all of the others that are quarantining alone. We are concerned for our friends and family that go to work each day.  I am heartsick for those facing financial fears due to lockdowns. My heart is sad for those who have lost loved ones. Yes, the virus is real. However, my intelligence and stubbornness cannot accept many of the statistics and mandates. My mask is made out of an old t-shirt and it is saving me or you from exposure to a global pandemic - really?   Sorry but after this mess, I trust the IRS more than the CDC.  (Soap box just turned over.)
   
  Life is good for us (despite the inconveniences courtesy of the crappy virus.) and we are blessed. Our family has made it this far through a global pandemic without anyone testing positive and miraculously without a nervous breakdown.  For these we are thankful and blessed.  
   
  We wish each of you a safe and happy Christmas. We hope you have a great New Year's Eve as we kick this year to the curb and yell GOOD RIDDANCE!. And we hope 2021 is both healthy and happy for each of you. 
 

Natalie, age 13, 8th grade Katy, age 12, 7th grade Martin, age 10, 5th grade Gatlin, age 5, pre-K Lincoln, age 1, precious and priceless